Improve Your Mood And Your Body

Improve Your Mood And Your Body

You may have noticed your body has become less flexible, a little slower, and you have lost muscle tone and endurance. This is common as we age. “We lose about a half-pound of muscle per year for each year we’re not engaged in resistance training,” says Jessica Matthews, assistant professor of exercise science at Miramar College in San Diego. Strength training also helps keep your bones strong. Muscle and bone loss are common aspects of aging. Both can contribute to less strength, speed, and endurance. While it gets harder to build muscle with age, it’s not impossible, and it’s never too late. Exercise can help you maintain what you have and build more to keep bones healthy. That translates to a reduced risk of falls—which is especially compelling, considering falls are the leading cause of injuries in adults older than 65. A great way to help you with building strength, muscle, balance, and healthier bones is Yoga. You may believe that you are too old to do Yoga. Or you may feel intimidated thinking you will have to try a headstand. Actually, you can do Yoga at any age! Yoga is ageless and can help people of all walks of life and body types. It’s all about finding the type of yoga that is right for you and working within your abilities. The only Yoga rule you need to follow is finding what works for your personal needs. Your practice is your practice. A here are a few types of classes you may want to check out as you begin your Yoga journey – Restorative – Best for beginners, older athletes, and anyone recovering from an injury. Relaxation is key in restorative yoga, which is especially helpful for anyone recovering from an injury. Classes tend to focus more on stress relief and expect to use props like yoga blocks, straps, and blankets or cushions to support your body in various standing and floor poses. You’ll hold postures for enough time to allow the mind to tune out and calm down. Chair – Best for beginners, older adults, and individuals with chronic conditions, balance issues, or injuries. Can’t get down on the floor, don’t feel comfortable standing for long periods of time, or recovering from an injury that doesn’t allow you to do your usual activities? Chair yoga may be your answer. A chair allows you to perform yoga poses while seated or helps support you while standing. Some classes may only use chair poses, but many beginner-friendly classes may provide a chair and let you choose if you want to use it for some or all of the poses. Hatha – Best for all levels, including beginners who want a more dynamic practice. You can expect a Hatha yoga class to be basic, slower movements that pair breathing exercises with postures. It’s more active than restorative but less intense than other types of Yoga. There is considerable research suggesting that Yoga, when practiced correctly, can have many benefits. Here are a few that may interest you – Osteoporosis/Osteopenia -Weight-bearing exercises can increase bone density, although the gains are small. Still, yoga is valuable not only because of its potential effect on your physical skeleton, but because it helps you build muscle, body awareness, and better balance. Arthritis -Recent research shows that a regular yoga practice can aid in reducing joint pain and help in improving joint flexibility. A regular yoga practice might also reduce inflammation.  Core strength and back pain – If you have ever experienced back pain, you’ve probably been told to strengthen your core. Building up the muscles in your trunk, back, abdomen, hips, and legs means your spine is better supported. Yoga offers specific poses for core strength. Hormonal changes/hot flashes – Some studies have shown that a restorative yoga practice can help decrease the hot flashes that can come with hormonal changes.  Better sleep habits – Incorporating physical postures, breathing and relaxation techniques can have a positive impact on the time you take to fall asleep and the time slept. Improve strength and protect joints – Yoga protects the joints and could reduce the risk of conditions such as carpal tunnel syndrome and arthritis. Reduce hypertension – Various studies have found that yoga can have a positive impact on hypertension. One study found that patients with mild to moderate high blood pressure experienced a decline in blood pressure after just three months of daily yoga practice. There was a corresponding drop in cholesterol, blood sugar, and triglycerides. Lose weight – Practicing yoga has been linked to less weight gain in older adults. Those who practice yoga weekly for at least four years have on average less weight gain than the average adult aged between 53 and 57. Improve mood and reduce anxiety – Research suggests that yoga might have a bigger impact on mood enhancement and anxiety reduction than other forms of exercise. The reason might be because yoga practice leads to high levels of the brain chemical GABA, which has a calming effect on the body. Help with chronic pain – One study found that those with chronic pain were able to either improve or maintain their symptoms after just four weeks of yoga practice; with no patient reporting deterioration. As you look into starting a Yoga program, be sure to check with your doctor for restrictions. Also let your Yoga instructor know your concerns, particularly if you have any health conditions. They can help you modify poses that would be better for you. By practicing yoga for 10-20 minutes a day daily or every other day, you can see an immediate shift in how you feel. Even if you’ve suffered from ailments such as arthritis or broken bones, there are yoga exercises for you that are compatible with your body type. The main thing to keep in mind when you begin a yoga practice is to start slowly and with the most basic poses. Some benefits you may see once you have mastered basic poses are

Relax, Release, Restore

Relax, Release, Restore

Do you find yourself a little tense these days? You may find that your stress levels are up, and worry is robbing you of sleep. You may see the beginnings of health-related conditions that are associated with stress. These health conditions include obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure and heart disease. Although we cannot always stop the cause of our stress, we can control our response. I find I need self-care to unwind, deal with stress, anxiety or just relax. It may surprise you to know that yoga can help, and you may sleep better, too. Yoga? Relaxing? Yes! For those of you that remember yoga as head stands and pretzel moves, it may surprise you to learn the benefits of restorative yoga. What is Restorative Yoga? Restorative yoga is unlike the yoga you may have tried or seen. It is a style that is suitable for all levels, including beginners, to promote relaxation physically, mentally, and emotionally. This is a style of yoga that you can do on the mat or in a chair to promote the activation of the parasympathetic nervous system. The parasympathetic nervous system is the part of your nervous system that helps you rest, heal, and restore balance. This slow-paced practice focuses on holding the poses in stillness and deep breathing. A restorative class may be slow moving, focusing on breathing and passive stretching. It may be fewer postures than you have experienced in the past. The emphasis is on a calming practice, slowing down, opening your body, and relaxing the mind. Benefits of Restorative Yoga Holding the asanas (poses) for longer periods and connecting to a deeper breath helps stimulate the relaxation response. This response can help in health-related ways, such as reducing blood pressure. This type of yoga has been studied and scientific evidence has been found to back up the benefits. Other benefits that may be helped with this type of yoga include: ·       Chronic pain ·       Depression ·       Anxiety ·       Improved sleep ·       Improve overall well-being Restorative yoga is a practice for healing. Often, the practice uses a variety of props, such as blocks, bolsters, and blankets. These props help hold poses for longer periods with more ease and less tiring on the muscles. It allows you to unwind and relax. Generally, poses are comfortable and gentle, allowing you to hold the poses longer so the mind and body can relax together. The stress we experience daily is unavoidable and you may not realize how you need a break to relax, release, and restore. Yoga can be a great way to deal with the daily tension you are experiencing. “Rest and self-care are so important. When you take time to replenish your spirit, it allows you to serve others from the overflow. You cannot serve from an empty vessel.” — Eleanor Brownn Robin Anne Griffiths is a certified master development coach, personal trainer, behavior change consultant, and yoga instructor. She specializes as a movement instructor for senior populations. Her mission is to help with living a fuller and healthier life as you age. Her Better You Series is three unique programs tailored to help with positive changes in diet, fitness, and life direction. She works with groups and individuals on life transitions to create personal balance – physically and mentally. You can find more information at https://robinannegriffiths.com.

The Quest For Shoes And Taking Care Of Your Feet

The Quest For Shoes And Taking Care Of Your Feet

Cleaning out my closet a few weeks ago, I collected a pile of shoes I no longer wear. These were shoes I had collected over several years accumulated from different times of my life. Some were still functional, some old and worn, and others I call “shoe dreams” which I will explain later. All these shoes got me thinking about age and how our life changes and we adjust.  Perhaps you can relate to the number of shoes you have had during your life and how they seem to coincide with different ages and activities. Some types of shoes never change, but the style or design may be different. Others, as I like to refer as “shoe dreams,” are shoes beautiful to look at but are not functional for walking. They may have a heel that it just too high or the fit is just not right. These are the shoes that gather dust because they are too beautiful to part with, but you will never, if ever, wear. Did you know there have been studies showing personality based on a person’s shoes? For example, heels can project confidence, pumps – control, boots – laid back and go with the flow. This does not just apply to women either. Men’s shoes can also give many clues to their personality. Untied sneakers, socks with sandals, suede desert boots can all give you clues to laziness, style, as well as high and low maintenance characteristics.  Shoe Trivia  A bit of trivia that you may find interesting is the average person in the United States owns 19 pairs of shoes. In her book Footnotes, Suzanne Ferriss, PhD, reveals that people may not realize it, but shoes are a collector’s item and buying shoes triggers an area of the brain’s prefrontal cortex called the collecting spot.  I can tell you that my shoes have changed a lot over time. At one time my shoes were all high heels except for my running shoes, hiking boots and flip flops. Today I have a mixture but no real high heels and many more flats. Now when I buy shoes, I still look for style, but comfort and fit are most important. This is a relief because I enjoy being on my feet much more and can stand for hours without feeling the discomfort of cramped toes and stressed legs. Something I noticed is I now look for shoes that are wider. I did not realize, but our feet change over time and tissue becomes less tight, which can cause increased width and sagging arches. As we age foot care becomes more important. By age 50, most American will have walked 75,000 miles according to a UCLA article. This would be comparable to walking around Earth’s equator three times! Taking care of your feet is important, so don’t ignore pain or problems.  Exercising Your Feet  One place to start with foot care is exercising your feet often. Exercising, as with overall health, can improve foot health plus may reduce risk of injury. It also can maintain blood circulation. A great way to begin and best overall foot exercise is walking. Walking uses full range of motion and is great for your entire body. Try walking at a brisk pace for 30 minutes several days a week. Find the right footwear. Don’t skimp because there is undeniably a variation in sneakers. Invest in good, well fitted, footwear to avoid injuries and problems. Have your foot measured and ask about other foot issues such as flat feet and pronation before looking at athletic footwear. Your shoe should be wide enough, the right length and accommodate without pressure. They should feel good and comfortable too.  Add to your walking program by combining flexibility and resistance exercises. You can do these types of exercises during your daily routine. You can improve your flexibility no matter how old and stiff you are by applying slow, gentle daily stretches to one group of muscles at a time.  An example of a flexibility exercise is to do a toe raise (lifting the heel off the floor), toe point (pointing the toe down on the floor) and toe curl (curling the toes under onto the floor with the heel lifted). Resistance exercises work muscles. A good example is toe splay. This exercise works to improve control over the toe muscles. You can work with both feet at once and one at a time. First sit in a straight-backed chair with the feet resting on the floor. Spread the toes apart as far as possible without straining and hold in this position for five seconds. Repeat doing this motion for 10 times. Once you have built strength, you can add a rubber band around the toes to add more resistance. As with all exercise, it is important to consult with your physician before beginning a new program or if you have arthritis, diabetes, cardiovascular problems, or structural foot problems. Taking The Transformation To The Next Level Perhaps you have undergone changes in your shoe selection over the years and transformed the type and look of your footwear style. This doesn’t mean you must sacrifice your personal style in order to keep your feet in comfort. The choices for quality shoes are better than ever before. Many manufacturers today have focused on stylish footwear with cushion, cooling fabrics, soft leathers, and foot molds to help with pain-relief. Take care of your health and find the right shoe so you can enjoy being on your feet for a long time to come.  About The Author Robin Anne Griffiths is a certified master development coach, personal trainer, behavior change consultant, and yoga instructor. She specializes as a movement instructor for senior populations. Her mission is to help with living a fuller and healthier life as you age. Her Better You Series is three unique programs tailored to help with positive changes in diet, fitness, and life direction. She works with groups and individuals on life transitions to create personal

Your Body Will Thank You…

Your Body Will Thank You…

Physical activity has benefits Living in Florida gives us many opportunities to be fit and get plenty of physical activity.  We can walk on a beach, spend time swimming, golfing, tennis, and cycling. But did you know that less than five percent of adults take part in 30 minutes of physical activity each day?  And only one in three receives the recommended amount of physical activity each week? Also, according to the President’s Council on Sports, Fitness and Nutrition only 35-44 percent of adults 75 years or older are active and even less at ages 65-74. Over 80 percent of adults do not meet the guidelines for both aerobic and muscle-strengthening activities. You may not find that so shocking but when you think about the benefits of physical fitness and how it affects us as we age you may change your mind about how alarming the statistics are. Over the years I have heard so many excuses why people do not get the physical activity they need. Most of these excuses revolve around time, but many are about how it makes them feel regarding sore muscles and other factors. I have heard the excuse of, I’m too old to start exercising now, and too often, I don’t have time or the equipment to exercise. First, I want to remind you to check with your doctor before you begin any physical activity program. You should also look at what would work best for your health, age, and current fitness level. Why Engage In Physical Activity? Physical activity is essential to healthy aging. Regular activity is one of the most important things you can do for your health as an older adult. We can prevent many health issues that come with age. Physical activity can give you freedom from becoming dependent on others by keeping you strong so you can keep doing your everyday pursuits. Exercise can help with balance and reduce the risk of falling. It can also help with reducing the risk of heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and colon cancer.  It’s About How Much You Move; Not How Old You Are –  The US Department of Health and Human Services has suggested adults have two-and-a-half to five hours a week of moderate-intensity activity. You may think if you had started younger and continued throughout your life, your chances for better health would be greater. Good news! Studies have found the same is true for adults who start exercising later in life. You can begin at any age and see improvement in health.  Where To Begin – Let’s start with how we think of fitness and what activities you will enjoy and stick with over time. It may surprise you to find that starting an exercise program later in life requires finding more meaning in why you are moving. My sister told me her goal was to get up off the floor without help as she aged. You may be looking to improve your physical movements so it’s easier to get in and out of your car. Perhaps you just want to feel more energetic rather than sluggish. By examining your needs and asking questions, you will see fitness goals to enhance your day-to-day functions in life. A bonus will be an increase in confidence you will have in your body. Start slowly!  Make It Fun! Start slowly and strive for light to moderate intensity in brief intervals. Spread your activity sessions throughout the week and increase gradually over a time. Begin with activities you enjoy. If you have a pet, then perhaps it’s a great opportunity to begin a walking routine that will benefit you both. If you have a pool, you can learn some water exercises, which can be fun and easy on your joints. Perhaps a friend or family member would like to join you, or you can hire a fitness coach to guide you into a program. The following are some examples of activities you may enjoy. Aerobic Activities: Walking Dancing Swimming Water aerobics Jogging Aerobic exercise classes Bicycle riding (stationary or on a path) Some activities of gardening, such as raking and pushing a lawn mower Tennis Golf (without a cart) Muscle-Strengthening Activities: Exercises using exercise bands, weight machines, hand-held weights Body weight exercises (body weight provides resistance to movement) Digging, lifting, and carrying (think gardening) Carrying groceries Some yoga exercises Some tai chi exercises Balance Exercises: Backward walking Sideways walking Heel walking Toe walking Standing from a sitting position It’s not too late to enjoy the benefits that come from physical activity. Your health will improve, and your body will thank you. The earlier you start the better, so start today. “Physical fitness is not only one of the most important keys to a healthy body, it is the basis of dynamic and creative intellectual activity.” – John F. Kennedy

A mountain of lessons

A mountain of lessons

Several years ago, I was on the adventure of a lifetime. At the time, I didn’t realize how it would impact my outlook on life but, looking back, I see many lessons from that trip. I, along with eleven other people, was on the quest to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro. This 19,341-foot mountain is in Tanzania, Africa. It is the highest mountain in Africa and the highest free-standing mountain in the world. The terrain on Kilimanjaro falls into very clear categories. Lower altitudes are forest, the middle is heather, and moorland, and top is basically desert. The beginning of the trip at the base of the mountain is humid, warm tropical weather. As you work your way up the mountain, it becomes colder and then freezing when you reach the summit and the glacier.  Our group was on a nine-day trek to reach the top and return to the base. Surprisingly, we had 40 porters, two assistant guides and one head guide to help the group on the trip. Climbing Kilimanjaro takes a village. You may not realize it, but for a trip of this magnitude, everything must be carried with you. Think about that for a minute. These porters carried all the tents, food, water, tables, chairs, cooking gear, sleeping bags, and many other items. These incredibly strong people carried an average of 40-50 pounds on their heads. Tanzania is a poorer country, and the porters are grateful to have their jobs. Unbelievably, many of the porters that work on the mountain treks will complete one trip, turn around, and start another. Lessons I Learned Okay, back to the lessons learned on the trip. First is the lesson of getting along for the common good. When you have that many people on the side of a mountain, you don’t always see things the same way. You have personality differences, but you learn to keep going forward and get along. The second lesson is group support. Each day is a challenge for someone in the group. It may be a slight disability or a major fear, but the group encourages each other to continue. They laugh, cry and watch out for potential problems. They are patient with the slowest one in the group and happy for any rest breaks along the way.  Third is gratitude. You welcome each day when the porters have broken camp that morning and pass you on the trail to set up at the next location. With thanks, you are greeted with a warm meal and drink from the people that are supporting you throughout the trip. Seeing a sunrise or sunset from a different level on the mountain each day opens your eyes to the beauty of our world. You appreciate the wonders our earth provides. Fourth is finding trust and faith in yourself. You have faith you will continue and trust your boots will hold where you place your foot. You continue to think you will acclimate to the altitude and not be reduced to the sickness that has turn back many just before the summit.  Fifth is having empathy for others. You find empathy for others when you see the pain of defeat in those who fail to reach the top of the mountain. In your heart, you know it could have been you. The final lesson is survival and focus. Each day is a survival. The long daily hikes, not bathing, the difficulty breathing thin air, and enduring the cold teaches inner strength. The goal is to complete the trip – period. You find faith in yourself, as well as faith, trust, and the good in others. You understand what you are made of and how much you really can tolerate and still move forward. What a great learning experience and adventure! These are lessons I will carry with me for the rest of my life. Look for the lessons you can carry with you too.

How To Find Your Adventure At Any Age

How To Find Your Adventure At Any Age

Are you seeking adventure in your life but not sure how to find what may fit you best? One of the rewards of getting older is we have more time, expendable income and confidence about what we want. Best of all you can enjoy exploration and receive many health benefits at the same time. The trend today in tourism is the demand for “experiential travel” which mean to be more authentic, immersed in culture, active and adventurous. Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone by adding a little adventure in your travel can improve your mood, keep you sharp, boost self-confident, strengthen the immune system and cope better with life challenges. Traveling can help with everyday life stress and teach us to relax. What Does Adventure Travel Mean?Adventure travel has different meaning for each individual. You may believe getting out of your comfort zone is adventure.  That idea can be anything from experiencing a different culture to extreme sports. To someone else it can mean avoiding the touristy places. Another person’s adventure can have a spiritual or changed life meaning. How Do I Know I’m Ready?Your adventure should be based on your fitness levels more than your age.  For example, you may be in good condition to walk through cities, museums, etc., but need more endurance for kayaking, running or hiking.  If there is a certain trip on your bucket list that requires more than your current fitness levels, consult with trainers and medical authorities to evaluate what you would need to be in shape and ready to accomplish the trip. Where To Find AdventureAdventure can be as easy as exploring a new city or national park. Perhaps you want to go a little further and experience other cultures, lifestyles or visit a different country. Maybe you have dreamed of a big adventure to push the limits by climbing a mountain, trekking across country or cycling long distance. A wide variety of choices are available to you. Let’s see how you can find the right fit for you. Check Out The OptionsMany organizations offer excursions ranging in effort from easy to strenuous. Options can be from rustic to pampered. All the details can be handled, or you can choose options within the itinerary. It’s up to you and your preferences You can research the options online once you find an area of interest to see what fits best for you. You Don’t Have To Go AloneIf you enjoy meeting new people and traveling with others in your age groups, look for companies that cater to specific demographics such as age groups, special interest or single travelers. The advantages of traveling with a group will be planned excursions. You can travel solo but not alone. By traveling with groups of like-minded people you can create new friendships, feel safer and share the fun. Fitness AdventuresIf you are looking for a trip that requires physical activity, check out what you will need as far as training. For example, if you want to do a long-distance race in another part of the country or overseas, you can investigate a charitable organization that will help train you and arrange transportation while you fund raise for them.  If you want to climb a mountain, you will need to research the best company to hire and what they will expect you to accomplish during the trip so you can train. If you are going on a cycling trip that includes steep grades you need to be aware and build the fitness needed. All these types of travel are available for a variety of physical levels. Learn what you want to do so you can prepare and make the experience the best of your life. The great outdoors is a wonderful place to find adventure. Safaris, white water rafting, camping and backpacking can open your world to a new appreciation for nature. There are many options on how strenuous a trip and length of time. Try a new experience and then work up to a longer more intense experience. For example, you might hike the Appalachian Trail for a day, a week or the entire 2,200 miles. A safari can be day trips with luxury lodges in the evenings or the entire trip in rustic tents. The best part is you have choices and can grow and take your adventurous side to a new level. Check Out What Is Close To HomeDon’t forget to explore the treasures in your own backyard. We often think we must travel to distance lands to seek an adventure. But consider what is accessible and not too far away. First look at the public parks in your area and the tourist attractions. Next explore the city’s museums or other public building. Research what makes your town and surrounding area special and why others come to visit. Adventure Giving BackFinally, if you are looking for a deeper involvement, look at volunteer opportunities. This can be a way to share your knowledge, time and skills with others. There are opportunities throughout the world to help and teach others while you experience a new culture. Whatever you choose you can expand your knowledge, make new friends, and enjoy additional health benefits and get out of your comfort zone.  “Oh, the places you’ll go.” -Dr. Seuss Robin Anne Griffiths is a published author, certified master development coach, personal trainer and behavior change specialist. She works with groups and individuals on life transitions to create personal balance – physically and mentally.

Ten Steps To Find Motivation For A Better You

Ten Steps To Find Motivation For A Better You

Have you found yourself in the morning resolved to change habits and by evening it has disappeared?  What are your road blocks?  Going out to eat?  Unexpected guests? Started a project and time got away from you?  Becoming over-whelmed, or you didn’t feel like it later in the day? The secret is to find motivation and have a plan you can stick to for the long term.  So where to start?  What is stopping you? I have a few thoughts to help you become more accountable to what you are trying to accomplish. #1 – Decide What You Want To AccomplishWhat is important enough you will want to stick with it and follow through?  Evaluate your priorities and figure out what is most important and why you want to do it.  For example, if you are looking to lose weight – Is it because you want to look better?  Feel better or something else? If you want to be healthier – Is it because you are trying to prevent future problems, or solve current health issues?  Are you wanting to feel better and stronger? My point is if you don’t buy into the result or big picture, you won’t find motivation to accomplish the wanted result. #2 – Create A Personal Mission StatementAs silly as this may seem a mission statement is vital because you are deciding what’s important to you; why you are doing it and agreeing to move forward.  When thinking about a mission statement try to keep it simple.  Don’t make it complicated so it will be hard to remember or obtain.  Think basic plan and work from there.  For example, a sample mission statement could be as little as “I will walk five days a week and build up to going ten miles a week.” #3 – Set Mini GoalsMini goals are great to keep us excited about what we are doing, and it also helps us change habits.  You can control how many and how often you have mini goals.  For example, you may decide as part of your weight control or healthy eating plan you will delete one item from your menu in the next month.  You may have a mini goal of adding stretching to the end of your workouts.  Or one mini goal may be to drink a certain amount of water daily. When you have these types of mini goals, you see differences in your life plus you feel good about being in control. #4 – Make NotesList can be helpful.  It could be something you hang on your bathroom mirror to see each morning, a phone app or an actual to-do list on your calendar.  Don’t over load your list with items you know you cannot handle.  Some people find it works well to have a list of things to accomplish each week and at the end of the week reflect on what happened.  For example, say you want to read an article once a week on strength training techniques.  Or perhaps you decide each week you will try a new recipe that is healthy for you.  Go back to your mission statement and mini goals to see if they are falling in line with the big picture of what you want to accomplish. #5 – One Task At A TimeHow often do we hear the benefits of multi-tasking?  I am here today to tell you to stop and think single tasking!  Why? I bet you do too much at once and instead of something getting done everything is in process. There is something also called slow multi-tasking.  This is having multiple task going on, but you are working on one thing at a time.  If you want to give up sugar, exercise, or give up caffeine then start with one and get it done before moving to the next.  I often tell my fitness clients I’m excited they showed up.  If they can’t do every movement or need to alternate something, it’s okay.  We can build as we go.  The last thing I want is someone to feel uncomfortable, then stop and quit.  Remember single tasking! #6 – Know Your Strengths And WeaknessesWe all have things we do well and many not so well. For example, you may have the self-discipline to work out regularly but can’t give up the evening dish of ice cream.  Knowing what needs done and owning up to what you do is two very different things.  Make a mental note of where you are strong and where you have weaknesses.  Then work on what you can do to make your strengths even more of an asset and decrease the weaknesses or at least recognize them and chip away on how they are affecting your life.  If getting to the gym is hard to do in the morning but you are better in the afternoons, then plan it.  If you have a weakness for certain foods, then don’t have it in the house or plan how you can indulge and when.  #7 – Create PartnershipsWhen possible work with others who have similar goals.  It will make your journey more fun and by sharing ideas it will motivate you to stay on course. When I began my journey, I met with a group who went to the same gym classes at lunch time and had similar goals.  We all became friends and did outings outside the gym.  Our lunch time workouts were like a recess for us in the middle of our day.  It gave us an incentive to go. #8 – Have Self-ValueSo often we put ourselves last on the list of needs.  We take care of everyone else and if there is time left over, we then give to our self.  Reassess your priorities and learn how important it is to have self-care.  Work on adjustments you can do to make sure you are getting the attention you need to be the best person you can be. # 9 – Getting FeedbackWhen you

Be Like a Navy Seal – Never Give Up

Be Like a Navy Seal – Never Give Up

I had the pleasure of visiting the National Navy UDT-SEAL Museum in Fort Pierce, Florida. It is the only museum dedicated solely to preserving the history of the U.S. Navy SEALs. It was a fascinating tour covering decades of history honoring those who served.  The running theme during the tour is serving others and never quitting. They persevere and thrive on adversity. No matter what our circumstance in life we can learn and be inspired by their dedication.  Navy Seal sayings can keep us motivated for our own personal or career goals. Each day as we get distracted with responsibilities, we may want to think about these sayings to keep us inspired and driven.  Here are a few of their phrases to keep top of mind:  Get comfortable being uncomfortable. The training for SEALs is intense and comfort is not an option. They are trained to focused on their task and not on how uncomfortable they may feel. How often do we put off difficult projects or confrontations because we are uncomfortable? Whatever the reason, it will not get easier by procrastination. Embrace the reality. Do the work. As you overcome these challenges, you will become more confident and be ready for more test. The only easy day was yesterday. Each day is a new challenge regardless of what happened the previous day. Yesterday is over. Look forward to new beginnings and pushing yourself to gain momentum with each thing you have mastered. Try a little harder, seek out new ideas, overcome challenges. Have a shared sense of purpose. Communicating your goal or purpose is not always easy. Things will change in your professional and personal life. Learn by listening and sharing what you want to accomplish. Find the big picture and help others to understand and how to get there. Share your goal with those who will support and cheer you on if you are working on something that is difficult. All in, all the time. To be a SEAL you give everything you have every day. It is not an option, they have to dig deep and focus on the task. You also need to be all in no matter the circumstance. If you are working with a team, starting a new company, running a marathon or improving your health, you must give it your all. Being sloppy or careless won’t cut it. People notice if you’re serious. Put your heart into everything you do. No matter what your age or what you are doing, follow the SEALs and learn to be okay with uncomfortable, be prepared and go all in every time all the time.  “Make up your mind to do it. Proceed one step, one hour, one evolution at a time. Help your team mates whenever you can. Keep going.” – Denny Johnson, BUD/S Class 42

Get Over It

Get Over It

Years ago, when I lived in South Carolina, I took part in a 10K run (6.2 miles) each year in Charleston. This was an exciting run because it began in Mount Pleasant and ended in Downtown Charleston after crossing the Cooper River Bridge, which is 573 feet high.  It was a fun run because people lined the streets cheering and high-fiving the runners while bands played inspiring music along the course to keeping everyone going.  It was also an intimidating run.  Six miles with a very large bridge to get across.   One year the theme was “Get Over It” and while running many of the local radio stations and bands were playing the Eagles rendition of the theme. I’m telling you this because I was listening to a speaker talking about how we look at our future.  She was asking the audience to think about what they wished for and if they were avoiding going after it because of fear or another reason.  She pointed out how we avoid looking at what we want out of life because we realize we are not there and more than likely not even close.  She asked questions such as, “Is this the best it’s going to get?  Are you giving up on your dreams?  Are you stuck?”  Her point was to work on how to get from here to there and find whatever it is holding you back.  In other words, get over it, and move forward.  Do you find yourself stuck?  Perhaps there are things in your life you wanted to accomplish but haven’t for whatever reason, challenge or adversity.  You became stuck, and either gave up or decided to delay getting what you wanted.  Why?  Perhaps you are feeling pressured, not organized, fearful, or worthy.  Often, we don’t realize how strong we are and the power we hold to carry us through many obstacles in life.  We discount our feelings, thoughts and desires.  If all this sounds familiar, then I would recommend you start with facing the fact you want something and need to find a way to obtain it.  Is it something you really desire?  Or a passing thought?  If you have passion for something it will be easier to work toward accomplishing and acquiring your wish.  Here are a few suggestions that may help you move forward and gain the things you want: You may need to work on your outlook on life, and face your fears.   Start by distinguishing what is fact and fiction then stop making excuses and incorporate change. Are you looking at life with a positive or negative attitude?  If you are seeing the negative side of life, then you most likely will find yourself stuck.   Negative attitudes will be the ‘can’t do it’ in your life. Fear can halt many adventures as well as accomplishments in life.  Is the voice in your head stopping you from taking steps forward?  Check to see if your fears are valid or just stopping you because it’s an unknown and you are uncomfortable with the idea. This leads to if your mind is dealing with a fact or fiction. Are your emotions controlling your thoughts and keeping you from moving to the next step?  Perhaps sitting down and making a list of the reasons you are stuck may show you that feelings, not facts, are stopping you. Finally, stop making excuses and start making changes.  It is easy to make an excuse not to do something.  From I don’t have time, to not feeling like it, as well as the multitude of things we feel are more important.  Stop.  Find the time and incorporate small variations in your daily schedule.  You will be amaze how over time you have taken many steps to get to where you want to be.  Once you get unstuck, it gives you a feeling like getting to the other side of the Cooper River Bridge.  You feel powerful from accomplishing something that was challenging but achievable.  You faced the task and overcame the fear, emotion, or whatever reason that was holding you back.  You Got Over It! “One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.” ~Unknown